our sexual desires are sacred

our sexual desires are sacred.

but we were trained to hide them.
taught to press them down:
into shame, into silence,
into a dark room only the lost girls,
the sluts,
the unsettled women were allowed to enter.

but desire is not foreign to us.
it lives in almost every body.
still, we treat it like something we can only touch
with gloves on—
not with skin.
not with dignity.
not with warmth.

too often desrie has been misued as a form to supress, dihonor, take advantage in the bigger and smaller picture.

but it’s often the most honest part of us.

In ancient greek, to recognize is epiginosko— to remember again.
to truly see one another.

how beautiful is that?

imagine showing yourself—
not cool, not tamed—
but soft, warm, wild, real.
your whole body a prayer.

and someone isn’t overwhelmed.
they stay.

not just stay, but meet you in it.

In honest awe.
not control.
not confusion.
but presence.

they recognize you.
your body.
your longing.

not to own you
but because something in them remembers.

your desire is not too much.
it’s the path.
and the doorway back to yourself.

what if your desires aren’t dirty or dangerous

but sacred?

what if the reason they’ve been called dark,

isn’t because of their nature

but because of the room we were told to hold them in?

a room with no light.

no softness. no welcome.

a room built by shame, religion, fear, silence.

but the desire itself?

it was never the darkness.

it was never the sin.

it was never the threat.

it’s the light that tried to survive in a place

where no one dared to look.

so maybe the invitation now is not to fix your desire—

but to change the room it lives in.

give it windows.

let it breathe.

let it speak.

let it teach.

RECOURCES

SEXUAL BLUEPRINT TEST https://s.pointerpro.com/xyvvarox

READS https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/835151.The_Art_of_Sexual_Ecstasy

EROTICS https://erikalust.com/

CONTRECEPTION https://einhorn.my/

FEMALE PLEASURE https://www.omgyes.com/de/join

INTIMATE DANCE - FIMININE & MASCULINE ENERGY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdkAlYXQJs0

SOUL MATE BY AKUA NARU https://open.spotify.com/track/0SQg86odv33piyPWPgNpBM?si=e46bb97e57264bae

GOOP, SEX & LOVE DOCU  https://www.netflix.com/de/title/81459349